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Sick, Sick, Sick, Sick

There’s one person in this house who isn’t sick, and he’s writing this right now.  I had been sick with a bad cold last week, but got over it fairly quickly.  As soon as I recovered, though, Robin started getting sick.  And in her case, she stayed sick.  She was pretty much out of combat all weekend while we visited my parents.  She felt a bit better Sunday, but worsened again on Monday.  And by Tuesday, she still wasn’t feeling better and all three kids started showing symptoms of the same thing.  Thomas had a mild fever Sunday and Katherine’s started Monday.  We had hoped that Jonathan would be spared, but he’s stuffy and feverish too.

Not good.  We’re at Wednesday now, and although the kids are somewhat better — Thomas is not running a fever today, so he should be able to return to school tomorrow, and Katherine isn’t sprawled out listless on the stairs – Robin is still pretty wiped out, particularly since the baby did not sleep well last night and had to have his nose suctioned at least three times.

I have a lot of things piling up at work, and it continues to accumulate while I’m home.  But I’ve learned from experience that it’s pretty important to ensure that Robin is firmly on the mend when she gets sick with a new baby in the house.  When both of the older kids were around six months Robin had illnesses that knocked her out for multiple weeks, and trying to push her into activity before she was fully recovered just lengthened the infirmity.

She finally does seem to be on the mend, however.  Her temperature was stable, she’s sleeping better (when the kids let her sleep) and although she’s still pretty wiped out, she’s not comatose most of the day.  I have high hopes that I’ll be able to get back to work tomorrow and things will be on the upswing.

Except that today my throat is sore, and my nose is running just a bit, and I’m wondering if maybe I didn’t give this to the rest of my family; perhaps they are in the process of giving it to me…

As long as it’s not this, I’ll be happy.

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A Singing Turnip, Benjamin Franklin, and A Real Baby Doll

It’s been an eventful last few weeks with the kids.  I haven’t had the pictures downloaded, so I’ve been putting off writing about what’s been going on, but now that Spring Break is here I can catch up a bit.

Thomas has had several school activities, including his school musical and a major history project.  For the musical he was one of the vegetables.  He chose to be a turnip, so Robin made him a purple turnip costume.  He had a speaking part (one line) but sang all the songs as well.  The performance was very cute — I wish I had video to upload but our video camera’s battery was dead.  I took quite a few stills and got most of his classmates.  Here’s a pretty good one of Thomas delivering his line:

He had some difficulty with the hat, but other than that he had a great time and did very well!

For his history project, he chose Ben Franklin.  He didn’t know a whole lot about him before he started, but by the time they were done with the project he’d researched quite a bit.  We helped him do a timeline and a name poem, and Thomas chose a representative sample of his inventions to feature on his trifold poster.  And of course, he had to dress up like Benjamin Franklin.  Unfortunately, this project came right on the heels of the musical, so Robin had to make two costumes in quick succession.  Luckily, Benjamin Franklin isn’t that tough of a costume.  Here’s what it looked like:

One of the nice side effects of doing this project was that he got more interested in inventions and electricity.  He’d gotten an electronics kit from my folks last year, and had played with it a little, but after doing this project he got it out and started making all sorts of circuits and playing with all the components, and generally having a great time with it!

Lastly, Katherine and Jonathan have had their share of playtime as well.  He’s a very sweet baby and very tolerant.  Katherine sometimes shows interest in interacting with him and sometimes doesn’t.  But recently, she wanted to feed him a bottle.  So we… well, a picture is probably worth a thousand words here:

As you can tell, Jonathan thought this was hilarious, although he may have been confused as to what the bottle was actually supposed to be, since he doesn’t take real ones.  This cute scene didn’t last long, as I’m informed, but it’s typical of how she wants to play with Jonathan.  That’s not all that’s been going on with everyone, but it’s a good sample of the pictures we’ve gotten.  I have some good video of Thomas playing basketball, also, that I’ll try to upload soon.

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On The Road Again…

… or at least getting prepared for it.  We’re leaving town to go see my parents and my brother’s family, a road trip we haven’t made since before baby Jonathan was born.  So I’m just going to finish up stuff at work and then head home to help pack, so no (extensive|interesting) post today.

Next week I’ll catch up on family pictures (there are some good ones), and there will be a multi-part review of Dragon Age coming as well.  Stay tuned!

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Sick Weekend

We had a pretty good start to the weekend; we met up with one of Katherine’s former teachers for lunch on Saturday and then took advantage of our Lifetime Fitness membership to swim with the kids.  I was feeling great before we got into the pool, but by the time I got out my nose was running and I was feeling like I had a cold.

When I woke on Sunday, I was miserable.  I got the kids downstairs watching TV so Robin could sleep a bit more (Jonathan had had a few bad nights, so she needed it) and crashed on the guest bed downstairs.

Unfortunately, while I was in bed and Thomas was distracted by the TV, Katherine decided that the fishtank needed to be redecorated.  Surprisingly, she didn’t get water everywhere, but many of the decorative items that we had removed she plopped back in the tank.

Later in the afternoon, Robin took the kids back to Lifetime and I crashed for a couple hours.  I got to bed early and slept late, and am feeling much better today (although quite a bit worse than baseline).  With any luck, I’ll be the only one with this cold — I’m not looking forward to Jonathan having it…

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Toxic Toothpaste

OK, maybe not “toxic”.  How about “allergenic”?

I always used to wonder why in the world I got canker sores all the time.  They got particularly bad when I was sick or stressed, but even when I was well-rested and stress-free I would often get them.  As soon as one would heal I’d get another, and it really was unpleasant.

It turns out I’m sensitive to Sodium Lauryl Sulfate (SLS) an “inactive ingredient” in most toothpastes that causes it to foam up nicely when you brush.  Apparently a small but nonzero percentage of the population react poorly to SLS, and canker sores are one of the more common reactions.

It’s difficult to find commercial toothpaste brands that don’t use SLS (although you have to look very closely at the packaging to find it listed) but there are a couple of brands that are SLS-free.  I use a Tom’s of Maine brand that has fluoride (don’t tell the Fiendish Fluoridators)…

… but no SLS.  Ever since I’ve switched to that brand, I haven’t had any problems.  Recently I ran out and had to switch to an SLS-containing brand.  Immediately the canker sores returned.  As soon as I switched back, they went away.

So if you have problems with canker sores or mouth ulcers, try switching to SLS-free toothpaste and see if that helps.  It sure did for me!

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Close Dog

I’ve already written about Katherine’s reaction to having her four lower teeth extracted (“I want glue teeth“).  Lately she’s been a bit more OCD than usual — it comes and goes, but at the moment she really wants cupboard doors closed and pots centered on their trivets, etc.

Robin was privileged to see the newest manifestation of this yesterday.  Katherine was in the office with one of her teachers, working on programs, while Robin was working on the computer.  Also, Aurora (Rora), our female Sheltie, was in the office as well.  And she was panting — likely due to the fact that with all the floor lamps on in that room as well as the computers it turns into a reasonable facsimile of an Easy Bake oven.

This canine behavior, though, was apparently unacceptable to Katherine, so she expressed her objections forcefully:  “Close dog!”  “I want close dog!”  “Yes close dog!”

I’m not sure whether Robin took the dog out of the room or if Rora just settled down and stopped panting, but apparently the problem was solved without the use of duct tape, so all was once again well.

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So I Rewired It…

One of Katherine’s more annoying recent habits is to flip off the light switch in our office.  That wouldn’t be so bad, except that the switch is a half-hot that controls some, but not all, of the outlets in the room.  My webserver and my own computer are not on it (although the monitor is) but the main email computer and the one Robin uses for her work are on it.

So after about the fifth time Katherine killed power to Robin’s computer this past week I decided to rewire the switch to a flat plate and remove the control over the outlets.  This was a pretty trivial change compared to some of the work I’ve done in our basement over the past couple of years, but it was pretty satisfying.

So far Katherine hasn’t made any comments about the lack of the switch — we were out of the house enough yesterday that I’m not sure she noticed.  I’ll be interested to see her reaction when she finally figures it out — I hope it won’t be to go over and shut down the computers manually…

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Upgrayedd

He spells it with two D's, for a double dose of his pimping...

Over the last couple of days I’ve been upgrading my computer system at home.  The impetus is twofold:

  1. I got a version of Windows 7 as a prize in the 2009 Interactive Fiction Competition, and finally decided to use it to do a full reinstall on our primary email machine.  It’s an old Dell XPS, and we’ve had it for 5 or 6 years.  It’ll run Windows 7, and it’s gotten so encrusted with remnants of old software over the years that it isn’t particularly reliable any more, so I backed up all our photos, videos, music, and email, made a list of the apps we absolutely need to reinstall, and took the plunge.
  2. Thomas has been relentlessly hounding me for his own website.  It’s a huge hassle to administer my webserver, though, because I have to reconnect mouse and keyboard and monitor cables.  When I finally got around to it, I discovered the webserver was over 6 months behind on recommended updates, so I spent a good amount of time bringing it up to date.  I also added Mozy remote backup to it, since it handles all my web content and my Perforce source code control depot.  I recommend Mozy very highly; I’ve used it for years and it’s cheap, fast, and reliable.

For good measure, I’m putting Windows Live Mesh on all three of my machines.  This is a very nice, featureful, fire-and-forget RAS package for Windows and Mac computers, published by Microsoft.  It allows easy file sharing and remote access for XP, Vista, and Windows 7 machines.  I found it extremely easy to set up and get started with.

After I got the mesh set up, I was able to quickly install two new websites — one for Thomas, and one for Robin.  Right now they’re just skeletons, but we’ll be fleshing them out soon.  Thomas wants to host Flash video games on his site, which should be an interesting experience, and Robin has long wanted her own blog.  Now she has one!

The Windows 7 upgrade on our main machine is in progress as I type this; I’ll follow up soon and let you know how it worked.

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Ferb, I Know What We’re Going To Do Today

I don’t really watch a lot of cartoons these days.  I’m pretty busy with 3 kids, plus I generally prefer to read or play on the computer rather than watch TV.  When we do watch TV it’s usually The Biggest Loser or American Idol — shows that Robin and I both like and that we watch together.

On weekend mornings, however, we usually turn the TV on for Thomas and Katherine, and what they generally watch are cartoons.  They watch a wide variety of different shows, but the one that always gets me to sit down and watch with them is Disney’s Phineas and Ferb.

This is a very cute show that combines kid-friendly situations and antics with humor that appeals to both kids and adults.  And unlike The Simpsons, the two aren’t really separate; there are not really two levels to the show.  If you’re laughing, your kid probably is too.

An episode of Phineas and Ferb is fairly structured.  The premise is that it is summer vacation, and the eponymous brothers are trying to find fun things to do to occupy the day.  Phineas (it’s almost always Phineas) comes up with a Big Idea, which they set about implementing.  This usually ends up being some mammoth construction or engineering project, such as building a giant car wash, rollercoaster, or day spa.  Phineas, the short redhead, is the “mouth” of the group and the idea man, and Ferb is the technical genius (although neither boy is a complete slouch in the other’s area of strength).

The major obstacle is almost always the boys’ older sister Candace, who plays Daffy Duck to the boys’ Bugs.  Early on, she catches on to their plan and tries (inevitably futilely) to “bust” them by dragging their mom over to see whatever giant construct the boys have put together in the backyard.

Depending on the episode, some of Phineas and Ferb’s friends might show up to participate in whatever the scheme might be.  The most commonly appearing are Isabella Garcia-Shapiro, the overachieving Fireside Girl and the ballerina to Phineas’s Harrison Bergeron; Baljeet Patel, an East Indian supergenius and geek; and Buford Van Stomm, a tough kid who oscillates between bullying and friendly behavior.

Candace, besides her obsession with “busting” the brothers, is even more obsessed with fawning over her boyfriend Jeremy, and she often ends up madly juggling these two imperatives (often failing amusingly) as the plot unfurls.

At the same time as this is happening, there is almost always a side plot involving the boys’ pet platypus Perry.  Perry is actually a secret agent known as “Agent P”, and gets summoned to his secret underground base under the kids’ backyard to receive a mission briefing from Major Monogram, the head of the Agency.  This mission always involves dealing with the nefarious schemes of Doctor Heinz Doofenshmirtz, a crazed evil genius who invariably hatches some grandiose plot rooted in one of his many childhood traumas.

In his agent persona, Perry sports a stylish fedora, and although he can’t talk, he communicates very effectively using eye rolls and other facial expressions.  As his struggle with Doctor Doofenshmirtz reaches its climax, whatever bizarre device the Doctor has created usually misfires and either inadvertently resolves whatever jam the kids are in, snatches victory away from Candace just as she’s about to bust the brothers, or saves the day for Candace just as she’s on the verge of doing something monumentally stupid in front of Jeremy.

It’s all put together with excellent comic timing, and the voice work is great.   Candace and Dr. D. in particular are excellently done — Candace constantly skates the edge of hysteria while still projecting a unique personality, and the Doctor delivers some incredibly bizarre dialog with feeling and humanity.  Another appealing thing about the show is that the animation is fairly normal-looking instead of the almost aggressively ugly drawings in some other kids’ shows.

But the thing that really makes the show shine is the message and the relationships between the characters.  Despite Candace always trying to bust the brothers, she really loves them and has worked hard to protect them when they needed it.  In turn, Phineas and Ferb always try to help Candace out when she’s distraught over something (usually Jeremy).  Likewise, Perry and Dr. D., even though they’re each other’s “nemesis”, have each gone out of the way to protect the other when something seriously threatening is happening, and in fact exchanged gifts during the Christmas special episode.

All in all, the show presents kids using their imaginations and having good clean fun while displaying positive personality traits and resolving conflicts in a healthy way.  And it’s freaking hilarious!

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